You’re at the wedding of a very conservative relative who hasn’t had partnered sex before. How can you give sex-positive advice? Recently, I went to the wedding of one of my very religious cousins. I wasn’t planning on talking about … Continue reading
Note: This story contains graphic descriptions of my own sexual experiences. If reading about my sex life might be TMI for you, then you’ll want to skip this post. Can you hate causing pain to other people but still enjoy … Continue reading
Note: This story contains graphic descriptions of my own sexual experiences. If reading about my sex life might be TMI for you, then you’ll want to skip this post. Can you hate feeling pain but still enjoy kinky, sadomasochistic play? … Continue reading
Introducing my first hand-crafted dildo: The TARDIS Tickler! This toy is dedicated to gender outlaw Kate Bornstein, who is one of the most amazing people I know — and a huge Doctor Who fan. … Continue reading
A physics-based sex toy? FUCK YES! Meet Doctor X. Treme, who has a Ph.D.in applied physics and invents sex machines. He is the founder of X. Treme Orgasmatronics, which will soon be launching its first product, the X1 Orgasmatron. I … Continue reading
If you do a Google search on “Ian Halliburton Smith”, all you will find is the location of his tombstone. I wanted to take some time today to remember Ian because he was an amazing person, and he deserves a … Continue reading
(or, Strap-On Sex + IRC FTW) Note: This story contains graphic descriptions of my own sexual experiences. If reading about my sex life might be TMI for you, then you’ll want to skip this post. Technology and pleasure can intersect … Continue reading
Instructions by Kirr (on Fetlife) and Kristen This is a very basic project that only requires a couple of tools. The cane pictured also happens to be the first cane I’ve ever experienced. The fact that it’s pretty lightweight meant … Continue reading
Note: This story contains graphic descriptions of my own sexual experiences. If reading about my sex life might be TMI for you, then you’ll want to skip this post. How I lost my virginity–in the heteronormative, genital intercourse sense–was more … Continue reading
Growing up, the best technology I had to learn how sex worked was the written word. A little creativity with a library card can work wonders. Note: This story contains graphic descriptions of my own sexual experiences. If reading about … Continue reading