In which my Drag King journey continues: I get face-to-face with masculinity and begin to see what my guy will look like. (Continued from Part 1.)
“Being a nerd is not about what you love; it’s about how you love it.” Wil Wheaton’s words ring true for many self-identified geeks and nerds. But what happens if what you love is “love,” or even “lust”?
On July 19, 2014, I presented a talk entitled “The Sex Geek as Culture Hacker” at HOPE X. Below the video, you’ll find my slides, references, and lots of additional resources.
Latest update (July 29, 2014): I’ve posted video of the talk as well as some resources to help answer the questions that were asked during Q&A.
There’s a new post about the challenges of Naming Things over on the Passionate Produce blog. If you’ve got any ideas, either a name for my new nonprofit or a better name for Passionate Produce, I’d love to hear them! The Effing Foundation, anyone?
We are living in the future.
What’s neat about this tool is that once you’ve got a design that you like, it can generate a file which can be used to 3D print a mold for your toy. Once you’ve got a mold, you can cast your toy in your preferred silicone:
— Intiimi (@intiimi) June 29, 2014
I haven’t had time to go through the whole process, but I’m definitely looking forward to giving this a try!
Will I end up trolling an entire conference of mostly cisgender, heterosexual male hackers? It could happen. You’ll just have to attend the talk and find out.
Today on the Passionate Produce blog:
The Ambrosia Vibe, a “bionic vibrator,” by Dr. X. Treme and his collaborators at Orgasmatronics, Inc., is making the rounds online. For $150, is it “the real deal”?
With the latest news of financial institutions shutting down bank accounts of porn performers and crowdfunding platforms shutting down a porn performer’s medical fundraiser or refusing to pay out funds to porn performers, it seems like a good time to share one of the discoveries I’ve made while trying to understand how payment processing works:
When it comes to porn and erotica, credit card companies have more say in what you can and can’t buy than the government does.
Check out the full story on the Passionate Produce blog.
Given all of the cool work I want to do supporting sex-positive artists, activists, educators, and entrepreneurs, I’m considering re-launching Passionate Produce as a nonprofit.
While I’m treading water, trying to figure out how to keep pushing forward, one of my closest friends pointed out to me that I need to figure out what the heck my goals are. Not just what Passionate Produce is going to do in the next six months or year, but what I want to spend the next twenty or thirty years of my life doing. What do I want my life to be like? Why am I doing all this, anyways?
I thought a lot about that, and the results are posted on the Passionate Produce blog.