“Being a nerd is not about what you love; it’s about how you love it.” Wil Wheaton’s words ring true for many self-identified geeks and nerds. But what happens if what you love is “love,” or even “lust”?
On July 19, 2014, I presented a talk entitled, “The Sex Geek as Culture Hacker” at HOPE X. On this page you can find all of the resources associated with that talk, and I’ll update it as more materials (like video or audio recordings) become available.
There’s a new post about the challenges of Naming Things over on the Passionate Produce blog. If you’ve got any ideas, either a name for my new nonprofit or a better name for Passionate Produce, I’d love to hear them! The Effing Foundation, anyone?
We are living in the future.
As reported on Motherboard, Ikaros Kappler has created Dildo-Generator.com: a free, open-source tool that lets you design your own dildo.
My first dildo created on dildo-generator.com in less than 5 minutes.
What’s neat about this tool is that once you’ve got a design that you like, it can generate a file which can be used to 3D print a mold for your toy. Once you’ve got a mold, you can cast your toy in your preferred silicone:
I haven’t had time to go through the whole process, but I’m definitely looking forward to giving this a try!
I’m attending the conference HOPE X in NYC for the first time this year, and I’ll be giving a talk called “The Sex Geek as Culture Hacker” on Saturday, 7/19 (details on Facebook and FetLife).
My recent visit to the Fremont Troll in Seattle.
Will I end up trolling an entire conference of mostly cisgender, heterosexual male hackers? It could happen. You’ll just have to attend the talk and find out.
Today on the Passionate Produce blog:
The Ambrosia Vibe, a “bionic vibrator,” by Dr. X. Treme and his collaborators at Orgasmatronics, Inc., is making the rounds online. For $150, is it “the real deal”?
With the latest news of financial institutions shutting down bank accounts of porn performers and crowdfunding platforms shutting down a porn performer’s medical fundraiser or refusing to pay out funds to porn performers, it seems like a good time to share one of the discoveries I’ve made while trying to understand how payment processing works:
When it comes to porn and erotica, credit card companies have more say in what you can and can’t buy than the government does.
Check out the full story on the Passionate Produce blog.
Given all of the cool work I want to do supporting sex-positive artists, activists, educators, and entrepreneurs, I’m considering re-launching Passionate Produce as a nonprofit.
While I’m treading water, trying to figure out how to keep pushing forward, one of my closest friends pointed out to me that I need to figure out what the heck my goals are. Not just what Passionate Produce is going to do in the next six months or year, but what I want to spend the next twenty or thirty years of my life doing. What do I want my life to be like? Why am I doing all this, anyways?
I thought a lot about that, and the results are posted on the Passionate Produce blog.
I don’t generally feel comfortable asking people to give money to things, but I believe that it is really important for Princess Charming to exist in the world.
Kids need better princess role models, and lots of them, in stories that they can read and re-read as they get older. Josh Roby and Anna Kreidner have the whole thing planned out — each princess’s story is planned for a picture book, a bedtime book, and an early reader book. They are trying to build an enduring legacy of stories featuring princesses of color, princesses of different sizes, princesses who use swords and princesses who use words.
Princess Fayola is assigned male at birth and has to explain to her parents that yes, she IS a princess. Princess Rowan happens to have a physical disability. Princess Chandra happens to be about twice the size of any Disney princess I’ve ever seen (and I bet she’ll be kicking at least twice as much ass.)
If you have the resources to contribute to this campaign, please go do it. If you have social media accounts, please spread the word. Feel free to use the graphic I created (available as 480×567, 1195×1411, or SVG), or use the art from a Princess Charming update.
Go. Help bring these awesome princess stories to life so that kids — girls, boys, gender variant kids, trans* kids, ALL kids — can become more awesome people.
Lately the question I’ve come to dread the most is, “How’s your business going?” For my painfully honest assessment, head over to the Passionate Produce tumblr.
From now on I’ll be posting my behind-the-scenes startup updates on that blog (and also posting pointers from here).
Thanks to everyone who continues to be interested in and supportive of my work!